friendship

wat is friendship? do we have to fulfill each other's wish, n then we will become sumone's fren or do we have to share secrets wid each other, then we r sumbody's fren? im confused... is r any specific thing dat we shud do, then we r worth to be fren wid sumbody else? coz i think friendship is all about sincerity n understanding. its not d same as a relationship between man n woman. we r more tolerate in friendship as thr r always give n take situations. hardly argue as we r complementing each other all d tym... pendek stowi,easily forgive n forget la....best fren r considered as 1 of d family member usually...cracking around, crying 2gether, helping each other to be a better man in life...yup...thr's no doubt thr will b sum cant accept any crititism from a fren juz becoz they r too damn stubborn or the 1 dat critisyz so much tu prasan diri bagos... but for me, thrs no such things as "u have to give back wat i hv given to u". coz insyaAllah, in my heart, im helping a fren juz bcoz im capable to do it n i love doing it.its not about money, it not about showing off im better than u.non of dat! i will help as much as i can but dun xpect me to agree wid everything u said.we tend to be ourself amongs frens as we dun have to pretend d person we r not. say it if u see sumthin isnt ryt wid them...doesnt matter if they want to listen to it or not. say sumthin bcoz u care n not bcoz u need to care.juz love urself 1st, then u can love others...that's what i see in friendship.u r free to correct me if im wrong... peace